Fetish Culture-Down the Rabbit Hole
Fetish and Kink culture is, like many good things in life, a many layered thing, requiring proper exploration and understanding. One man’s kink is another man’s norm…so what, then, is truly at the bottom of the rabbit hole?
Oftentimes, my coworkers and I are asked “What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever heard or seen working in a store like this?!” My answer is always the same… “Define crazy!”
Restraints, handcuffs and bondage rope are considered more “safe” options and are by far our best selling fetish products. Other popular gear for those who are new to kinky play include ben-wa balls (otherwise called kegal balls) which help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, ball gags, and blindfolds. Those interested in light sensation play could look into pairing a blindfold with either some drip candles, which melt down into a (gentle! Very gentle!) warm wax, or wartenburg wheels, which look very much like cowboy spurs or pinwheels, and are used in to stimulate the nerves. Soft floggers or fuzzy paddles are also very popular and great for beginners.
Falling further down into the rabbit hole, we find some kink products that are more what people mean when they ask for something “crazy”. Some intermediate or expert products include those used in electro-stimulation, watersports, gimp suits and masks, chastity devices, nipple clamps, vaginal vacuum pumps, swings, and urethral “sounds”.
Electro-stim is especially popular despite sounding so scary…violet wands and TENS units can a gentle electrical pulse that can give the user a little bit of a shock or a big zap. Urolagnia, colloquially known as watersports, is a sexual excitement associated with urine or urination. Watersports gear might include synthetic urine for hygenically safer play, rubber latex masks, suits and bedsheets for easy cleanup, or even goggles and masks with “bowls” for collecting urine. “Sounding” is another surprisingly popular activity that involves inserting rods of varying width into the urethra. A lot of our customers say sounding just feels good, and not even necessarily in a sexual way…like scratching an itch.
Our clientele runs the full gamut, from bondage newbies to kink experts and by far, our best selling fetish products are restraints, nipple clamps, blindfolds, sounds and electrostim toys.
Despite all this, there are some requests we’ve had in the past that have caught even our most experienced associates off guard! Some adventurous customers have asked for vacuum-sealed beds, tools for belly inflation, CBT tools like “Humblers”, fetish “ballet” heels and anal hooks.
We have a very wide range of fetish products at Blue Boutique, from the most basic starter-up kits to seriously heavy duty BDSM business. We take pride in our ability to recognize the specific needs of each customer, depending heavily on their tastes and personal, individual experiences.
Blue Boutique specializes in high-end and classy options for even the most exclusive of tastes. Some of our favorite fetish and kink brands include:
- Kinklab– offers a diverse selection of exceptional quality products. We love their gorgeous packaging as well!
- Liberator– offers luxurious and elegant options in sex position furniture, restraints and more.
- Spartacus– offers a wide range of affordable, yet still high quality, products
- Sportsheets– offers a large selection of inexpensive fetish products
- Oxballs– offers a huge selection of high quality products…Oxballs caters to the most “adventurous” of users!