Many people who come in to Downtown Blue Boutique are seeking guidance as to how they or their female partners can achieve orgasm, as well as more pleasurable sex. All too often, both feel ashamed when a female partner is unable to orgasm through intercourse alone, although they are in company with 80% of other women. The key to unlocking a female orgasm is a close understanding of how the female body works.

Female arousal works differently than that of males. While men can be up and ready to go in a matter of seconds, women may need to take more time. Even if a woman is mentally aroused, she may physically be unprepared for intercourse. DO NOT BE AFRAID TO USE LUBRICANT. Our favorites are brands like Pink water-based, Liquid Silk, and Pjur. Apply liberally and often. We also have a natural supplement called Nite Rider Girl Power that will increase her arousal time. The all natural ingredients include natural aphrodisiacs, agents that will cause blood to rise to the surface of the skin, and a natural testosterone booster, all which will make a female especially sensitive and responsive to touch, as well as more aggressive between the sheets.

As the reader is surely aware, the most common ways for women to reach orgasm are either vaginally or clitorally. However, according to WebMD, “most women require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. For women who have trouble achieving orgasm, incorporating clitoral stimulation into sexual activity may be all that is necessary.” During intercourse, try using a small bullet on her clitoris while entering her from behind. We recommend the Lelo Lily or Kiki by Pico bong. If you wish to be more participatory in getting her off, we have a variety of cock rings with vibrating attachments, such as the Dr. Laura Berman Minerva ring.

The most important thing to remember is that every woman is wired differently. Make an investment in yourself and take the time to experiment with different products and truly get to know your body. We at Downtown Blue Boutique are here to educate and encourage you to find out what works best for each individual.